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12 Shocking Sex Facts

1. Cycles of light affect our fertility
Women used to menstruate during the new moon (when it’s dark at night) and ovulate during a full moon (when it’s light). Now, in a world full of artificial lighting and bright screens, women are not as in tune with the connection between their biology and nature. Some have tried “lunaception,” altering the lights in their bedrooms based on the moon lighting to change their ovulation.

2. Women can get pregnant five to eight days after having sex
Studies have shown that some sperm can live in the cervical mucus crypt before the egg is actually fertilized for anywhere from five to eight days after sex.

3. Wearing high heels can negatively affect a woman’s orgasm
Certain high-end shoe brands developed the arch in their high-heeled shoes to approximate the arch in a woman’s pelvis when she is having an orgasm. The heels create a contraction in the pelvic floor, which is problematic because the pelvic floor then cannot contract further during orgasm. “An orgasm is usually like going from zero to 60,” explains Fromberg. “If you’re already at 55 [from wearing heels], you’re not going to have a full experience.”

4. Orgasms can make women more creative
Studies have shown that orgasms can make women more confident, productive and creative. And it’s a feedback loop—women achieve fuller orgasms when they are being creative.

5. Birth control pills dampen the libido
Any hormonal contraception has that psychological side effect. Sometimes women even have trouble conceiving once they’re off the pill because while they may have been attracted to their partner on the pill, they’re not actually compatible with each other biochemically without the extra hormones.

6.  Sitting in chairs can arouse women
Pudendal nerves, underneath the buttox and the sitting bones, feed arousal tissues (in the vagina, clitoris, anus, etc.). Sitting in a certain kind of chair pressing on the pudendal nerves in a certain way can lead to sexual arousal.

7. …But it can also dampen their orgasms
On the other hand, sitting in chairs for most of the day shortens the pelvic floor and psoas muscles—muscles which are essential to a full-body orgasm. When these muscles are tight from sitting too much, women find it harder to achieve a great orgasm.

8. Women have three erogenous zones 
The clitoris, the G Spot, AND the opening of the cervix. Some argue nipples belong on that list too.

9. Nerve endings are distributed differently in every woman’s vagina
Like a snowflake, each woman is unique in that her nerve endings are distributed in her genitalia differently than anyone else. That means, every woman needs to employ slightly different methods to achieve orgasm.

10. The pulsations a woman feels during orgasm are actually her uterus trying to gather sperm
Round ligaments that end in the labia majora “rock the uterus back and forth during orgasm so that the cervix has the opportunity to potentially scoop semen up that may have pooled in the back of the vagina to enhance fertility,” says Fromberg.

11. Being well hydrated leads to better orgasms
Because the body is mostly fluid, being hydrated enhances people’s ability to achieve orgasm.

12. All woman can achieve orgasm
Almost no woman was born unable to achieve an orgasm. “Women have the innate machinery programmed to have orgasms,” Fromberg explains. “But not everybody learns how to use that machinery well.”

Product Highlight: Lelo Bo Men’s Luxury Cock Ring

Does your female partner climax from external stimulation only? Ever ask yourself how you can give her the big O without having her use a vibrator at the same time, freeing her hands? If so, Lelo has delivered in a big way with Bo, a men’s luxury cock ring meant for couples pleasure. Step out of a world of only you getting the cookie after Chinese dinner and enter a world of equal pleasure.

The Lelo Bo men’s luxury cock ring is a pleasure object in the form of a rechargeable ring for men and intended for couple’s pleasure. Bo is made from soft, body-safe material which is also flexible for comfort and ease of use. This men’s cock ring is a vibrating ring that delivers four hours of vibes off of one hour of charging. Bo also comes with a simple slide interface for easy adjusting for all size of men. Being portable and discreet, Bo can be brought along anywhere for anytime it is needed. Lelo Bo comes presented in an elegant gift box, accessorized with combined charger and storage unit, manual and a 1-year Lelo warranty.

When using your Lelo Bo luxury cock ring, be sure to use plenty of lubrication. We here at The Safe Alternative always recommend Sliquid brand lubes. Their organic, all natural lubes were created with women in mind, using all natural and botanical ingredients to keep her most sensitive parts in great working condition. If you are taking Bo on the run, pick up a pack of .17oz lubes. Perfect for on the go or easy storing while traveling.

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Product Hightlight: Lelo Alia

Step into the world of luxury and you will discover why when you purchase a Lelo, you truly get what you pay for. If you’re the women who always settled for the Walgreens cheap brand of vibes and could never be totally satisfied, then keep reading. Lelo brand is a world renowned sex toy provider for a reason, they consistently deliver quality products. Backed by a one year warranty, Lelo gives you that extra piece of mind.

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Alia – Black

The Lelo Alia vibrator is an elegant intimate massager where simplicity inspires exciting possibiblities. This adult toy is couple-friendly and makes for a wonderful gift. The Lelo Alia is made with a smooth outer shell that glides over the skin with nearly silent vibrations derived from an internally housed motor. The Lelo Alia is made from the smoothest body safe silicone with an ABS core, making it 100% waterproof and comes complete with the Lelo signature three-button interface that controls vibration intensity through six variable speeds. Alia is fully rechargeable and provides a minimum of four hours of pleasure and arrives in Lelo’s award-winning packaging complete with charger satin storage pouch INSIGNIA brooch and a full 1-year warranty.

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Alia – Black

When using your new Lelo Alia, be sure to always use plenty of lubrication, and water-based is mandatory when using a silicone based toy. Oil-based lubes cause the silicone to expand, creating tears and making it no longer waterproof. We at The Safe Alternative always recommend Sliquid brand organic lubes. Their lubes were created with women in mind, using only the finest ingredients keeping your most sensitive parts in tip top shape.

Treat yourself to the luxury and orgasm you deserve, get yourself a Lelo Alia and let the good times keep buzzin!

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7 Amazing Penis Facts

  1. The average wad of man-fluid holds 40 million sperm, but there can be as many as 600 million squiggly guys, being thrust in to the world at 28 mph. And all it takes is one little tadpole, squirming at 200 seconds an inch, down to the egg and then… well, ask your father.
  2. The mammal with the biggest shvantz – the blue whale at 8 feet. The smallest? The shrew at 0.2 inches. Where do we humans fit in? Well, the good news is that we are the most well-endowed of our ape cousins. A gorilla’s dong dangles at a mere 2 inches. Relative to body size, however, the pig takes the prize, as they can have up to a foot-and-a-half wiener.
  3. Most of the world’s penises are uncircumcised – a recent study showed only 30% of boys over 15 are cut, the majority of them being Jews or Muslims. Yet, in the US, the number is close to 55%, due to possible health benefits from the procedure. And what do they do with all those foreskins? Doctors have perfected a way to grow skin for burn victims from the leftover skins. In fact one foreskin can produce 9,000 square inches of new skin.
  4. Most Mammals have a penis bone. Basically, your Johnson is like a sponge or balloon that literally fills with blood. When it’s at full sail, the blood flow is cut off, producing a stiffy. And while you probably know that there is no bone in the human penis, the baculum or penis-bone is common in most mammals, including chimpanzees and gorillas. And even though there is no bone in your boner, a klutzy move during sexytime could cause you to break your penis. OUCH!! Be careful out there!!!
  5. Sexual arousal is involuntary. In fact, the words “sexual arousal” may have just gotten you sexually aroused. It mainly occurs in the sympathetic nervous system, not the conscious mind. During REM sleep, the male brain fires off boner orders on the average of 9 times a night. And when men ejaculate, the command comes from the spinal cord, not the brain. As Silvio Burlusconi once said, “Bunga bunga.”
  6. The size of the average man’s junk is 5 to 6.4 inches when erect, measuring from the tip to the pubic bone. Contrary to popular belief, you cannot gauge the size of a man’s penis by his foot, finger, or nose. A recent South Korean study touted the correlation between penis length and the size of the index finger relative to the middle finger, but that is full of holes. The good news is that research shows most women don’t place much emphasis on penis size, it’s all about the wallet – I mean, heart.
  7. Blue balls is real. Prostatic congestion is the medical term for it – when the testicles and prostate are filled with too much goo and you can’t get relief. Fortunately, instead of doing something irrational, a man could simply take an aspirin, a cold shower, or think about grandma having sex with grandpa.

5 Arousing Sex Facts

  1. Throughout the world, approximately 25% of people report having had only one sexual partner. Conversely, 21% of people report having more than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime.
  2. One survey reports that 53% of sexually active Americans claim to have sex at least once weekly. However, only 48% of Americans report being satisfied with their sex life.
  3. Many of the ingredients in chocolate are proven to cause arousal similar in effect to sexual foreplay. In fact, some experts believe chocolate may be even more effective than foreplay for sexual arousal.
  4. Both men and women can be turned on by the aromas of wine. The scents of many wines are believed to replicate human pheromones, the chemical substances that cause behavioral responses in humans.
  5. Endorphins released during sexual activity create a euphoria similar to that produced by opioid drug use. These same endorphins also act as extremely effective pain killers.

5 Interesting Sex Facts

  1. Studies have shown that men who look at male porn produce more sperm. The studies have shown that the men who watch two men and one woman produced more sperm than those who looked at just women. Scientists speculate that seeing competition makes men step up their baby-making capacities.
  1. In Victorian times, whores wore pubic wigs. The pubic wig, known as merkins, has been around since the 1400s when it was originally worn by women who had shaved their pubic hair off to prevent lice. In the Victorian times it was frequently worn by prostitutes who wanted to conceal the fact that they had diseases like syphilis (swear we’re not merkin’ this up). They come in all shapes, sizes and designs (even sparkly butterflies).
  2.  Condoms were originally made of animal intestines or linen.
  3.  The word “fuck” is actually an accurate acronym. It dates back to the Good Old Days, when England was severely underpopulated due to the usual combination of fire/war/plague, and the King issued an official order to… well, fuck, to replenish the population. Hence the phrase “Fornicate Under Command of the King” passed into everyday language.
  4.  The word “sex” was coined in 1382. And that’s all I got on that.
  1. Humans are the only species creative enough to “69.” All others have settled for the conventional and practical ways of gettin’ ‘er done.
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Product Highlight: Tantus Mark 02

Looking for a new dildo, but don’t want “brutal”? Desire quality while not breaking the bank? Then you stumbled upon a great review for a solid product that meets those criteria!

The Tantus Mark 02 is a high-quality dildo priced at less than $80USD. This is the perfect size, coming in at 6.75 inches long and 1.37 inches wide, for constant pleasure. Tantus Mark 02 has a super soft silicone outside while maintaining a hard muscle core on the inside, both of which are made by Tantus’ own unique blend of 100% ultra-premium silicone. The Mark 02 comes in three skin tones so you can be pleasured by the penis color you desire the most.

The Tantus Mark 02 is also compatible with harnesses making it a versatile dildo. Use it on yourself or have it used on you by a friend. Gay or straight all will enjoy this fine piece of adult sex toy entertainment.

When you are done using the Mark 02, be sure to always clean it properly. This can be done using an anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner or by placing in on the top rack of your dishwasher and running it through a cycle.

When using your Mark 02 be sure to use plenty of water-based lube. Oil-based lubricants cause silicone to expand exposing the toy’s interior and cutting down its lifespan. We recommend Sliquid Lubricants, they are the best in the game, and they’re all natural and organic so they will never harm your body. Be rest assure that you can apply this lube and it won’t drip off causing a mess before you can get started on yourself.

When you are looking for a high-quality dildo that won’t break you or your bank, look no further than the Tantus Mark 02. Tantus is the name in dildos and this product proves it.

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Product Highlight: Lelo Lyla 2

The Lyla 2 is an upgraded model of the original Lyla, the go-to in remote-controlled vibrators. Even at a distance you can control this personal massager for fun at home or at a party.

This technology is based on the original SenseMotion, however comes with three times the distance for three times the fun. Coupled with more distance, this remote-controlled adult sex toy has 50% more intensity in the vibrations.

The Lyla 2 can be worn internally or externally and is built around a waterproof and rechargeable battery. The controls are simple and based on movements applied to the ultra-discreet wireless controller. The Lyla can be controlled up to 39 feet away, providing an intense and sometimes shocking vibration when the controller is not around.

The SenseMotion works in two ways: simply turning or tilting the controller from a vertical or horizontal position sends more intense vibrations to your vibrator or you can apply motion (shaking, sweeping or spinning) to your massager. If after trying these two options you find yourself bored, you can use one of six preprogrammed vibe patterns, all of which will please.

So if you are looking for the best in remote-controlled vibrators, look no further than the Lelo Lyla 2. This amazing sex toy will deliver discreet, intense vibes that you can enjoy in your home or while out for a night on the town. Vibe on!

When using the Lelo Lyla 2, be sure to use plenty of water-based lube. Oil-based lubricants will cause the silicone to expand; exposing the toy’s interior and cutting down its lifespan. We recommend Sliquid Lubricants, they are the best in the game, and they’re all natural and organic so they will never harm your body. Rest assure that you can apply this lube and it won’t drip off causing a mess before you can get started on yourself.

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5 Pretty Random Yet Interesting Sex Facts

1. According to a survey of sex shop owners, cherry is the most popular flavor of edible underwear. Chocolate is the least popular.

2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.

3.  Viagra was released in 1998 with over $411 million in profits within its first three months.

4. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.

5. The more sex you have, the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!

5 Mildly Interesting Sex Facts

1. The Vibrator, a common sex toy for women, was originally designed in the 19 century to fight the anxiety-related symptoms of hysteria. There was even a play done about it, In the Next Room (also known as he Vibrator Play) in 2009.

2.  In earlier times, masturbation was believed to lead to blindness, madness, sudden death and other unpleasant diseases. Present research, however, shows no connection.

3.  Humans have the LARGEST penis of all primates.

4.  A man will ejaculate approximately 18 quarts of semen, containing half a trillion sperm, in his lifetime.

5.  The Geisha of Japan would not perform fellatio because it was considered demeaning for the cultured to do so.